It is hard to continue to live with a person for whom you don’t have immense love, especially when that person is your spouse. It is imperative that you think carefully about what you want for your future. One thing that you don’t need to do is to make a rash decision that’s based on temporary feelings.
If you decide that you want to divorce your spouse, you are going to have to break the news to them. This can be difficult because they might not agree with your decision. You must think carefully about what you are going to say and how you will say it before you discuss this with your ex.
You should remain calm and factual. Don’t try to make a list of all the things you perceive as wrong with the marriage. Instead, talk about your feelings and why you think that the marriage is over. You will have to stand firm, but don’t try to make any decisions about things like property division now.
One of the most pressing things you will have to do is decide who is going to live where. This can be rather challenging, especially if you both want to remain in the marital home.
Before you have this discussion, be sure that you are ready to follow through with it. Your life is going to change considerably once you make this choice known. You will need to support yourself and learn to move forward as a single person.