Logic must rule the decisions you make during your divorce

Mediation is a way that many people resolve the issues that must be handled before a divorce can be finalized. This means that you and your ex will work with a neutral third party to come to agreements on everything related to the divorce. Trying to come to these agreements can be a challenge.

When you are ready to get divorced, you need to remember that it isn’t a one-day ordeal. Instead, you may need to wait for a waiting period to pass before you can have the divorce finalized and even then you will have to file paperwork to accomplish the same. We know that this might be difficult to go through, but it is required.

As you are working through the divorce matters, you need to keep the final goal in mind. You need to think about how each decision you have will impact your life once the divorce is finalized. This means thinking about the next year and next 10 years.

You will need to look at the total financial impact of the divorce so that you can move forward with the decision-making. You might be surprised at how easy it is to focus on all the emotions, but allowing this to happen might work against you. For example, it is easy to think about how much you want to keep the marital home, but you will need to look at whether you can comfortably afford the expenses and work that comes along with that.

We can help you look at the logical points of your divorce situation so that you can evaluate them appropriately and resolve the pending issues.